The What and Why of Arguements

What exactly is an argument?

As there are numerous dictionaries in existence there are numerous definitions of an argument. For the sake of argument (pun intended), we will define it as a method to prove a point using reason, evidence, and/or action. Most texts on the subject of arguments leave out action and focus exclusively on the verbal or written portion; however, life isn’t 2 dimensional. For instance, when workers go on strike or when a person walks away from a negotiation without saying a word, these are action based arguments. Like a written argument, there is a reason and purpose embedded within actions, which is the essence of argument. Thus, the fundamental and necessary element of an argument is to advance a point or purpose by showing that it is true. Yet, what is the purpose behind arguing?

Why do people argue?

Arguments can be used to insult someone’s mom, get a sweet promotion, or prove that cows are smarter than cats, but whatever the issue – people will argue, and that is an undisputable fact. Essentially, people argue in order to discover which point is better over a competing one (i.e., It’s better to be a jerk than to be a decent person) or to defend a point or perspective. Whatever the intent is behind an argument, it is significant to note that not all arguments are made equal.

What does all of this have to do with you?

Arguments are a weapon that you can use to both defend and attack with. Whether you want to defend yourself against stupid remarks or if you want to really stick-it to someone, arguments are often the best way to do it. What better way to show your dominance over another human being than to make them eat their own words or show them their flawed reasoning than with effective arguments? Thus, it is critical in this conflict ridden world to be able to argue effectively, and we will show you how.